A Breathing Stress Relief Technique to Overcome Anxiety

As shown in the illustration to the right, there are ample reasons for one to learn how to overcome stress or be able to weather stressful events successfully. Wear and tear on the body is significant and can be cumulative. It can also lead to the contraction of communicable diseases due to a weakened immune system.

A proven method of addressing stress is to use what is called breathwork. Breathwork is doing exercises with the diaphragm in order to make respiration occur more fully, smoothly and efficiently. There are ancient traditions of exercises with the breath that come from India and China, known as yoga and qigong, respectively.

Stress makes you stop breathing or causes you to breathe rapidly. This happens automatically, or unconsciously. But you can consciously intervene to observe and calm yourself. So, the goal of breathing exercises is to give you a way to place your attention on your breathing during stressful events. There are several ways to do that, and you can do it in various settings - be it the workplace or at home. You just need to take a few minutes as a time out to get in touch with yourself and do this simple exercise.

Breath Watching

The is the simplest method of reducing stress. Place your attention on the breath as it goes in and out of the nose. This is all you do. When the mind makes your attention wander from this one task, bring it back to the sensation of the breath as it enters and leaves the nose. You don't think about or change your breathing. Simply watch it. You have nothing else to do. Let go of thoughts and keep it on the breath.

If needed, closing your eyes may help you keep your mind on the task.

Another aid to the process is to use an inner smile. Smile and be kind to yourself. Life is too short to treat yourself badly or harbor negative thoughts. That will make the task easier and it puts you in the best mindset to return your attention when distracting (stressful) thoughts arise during breath watching. Stress implies a negative mindset and your task is to condition yourself into a positive mindset. Chuckle at your distractions and bring yourself back to watching the breath.

If you can do this practice for 5 minutes, you will see that you have attained greater self-composure and calmness. If you have the time, practice from 15 to 20 minutes.

The practice of following the breath conditions our breathing to operate more efficiently. Daily practice trains mind and body to sustain a tranquil mode of being. As Candace Pert, Ph.D., says, "our bodies are our unconscious minds," and if we practice tranquility our body chemistry will become conditioned to produce substances that maintain tranquility. It is known that during tranquility more serotonin is produced, a hormone which is important for regulating anxiety and decreasing impulsiveness.

Here are a few references regarding this topic:

1. Mind, Serotonin and Anxiety

2. Candace Pert's Website

3. Mindful Living Programs, Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction

1. Qigong Meditation and the Breath

2. Qigong Healing Arts